Virtual grief support events are more than a digital convenience—they’re a lifeline for families navigating the isolating terrain of loss.
As the world becomes increasingly digital, funeral homes are reimagining how they support grieving families beyond the service itself. One of the most meaningful, scalable, and impactful ways to extend care is by offering virtual grief support events. These digital gatherings not only meet people where they are—in their homes—but also remove barriers like travel, cost, and accessibility that might prevent someone from seeking help during a vulnerable time.
In this guide, we’ll explore the why, what, and how of virtual grief events—plus tips for implementation, best platforms to use, and how to integrate these events into your funeral home’s offerings with care and professionalism.
Why Virtual Grief Support Matters
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Grief Doesn’t End After the Funeral
Bereaved families often feel isolated once the services are over. Virtual grief events create an extended arc of support that builds trust and emotional connection. -
Accessibility and Convenience
Online events allow attendees to join from anywhere, whether they’re a senior with limited mobility or a young adult living in another state. -
Scalability for Funeral Homes
Hosting one virtual support group per month can serve dozens of families, without the overhead of in-person space or logistics. -
Brand Differentiation
Funeral homes that offer ongoing care—not just transaction-based services—build deeper loyalty and stand out in a crowded market.
Types of Virtual Grief Support Events
1. Facilitated Grief Support Groups
Led by licensed counselors or grief coaches, these small group sessions provide a safe space for attendees to share, listen, and process emotions.
2. Grief Education Webinars
One-time or recurring webinars on topics like “Understanding Grief Triggers” or “Coping with the Holidays” can draw larger audiences and establish your brand as a grief-support resource.
3. Virtual Memorial Ceremonies
Create monthly or quarterly remembrance events where families can light candles, share photos, and honor loved ones together.
4. Specialty Groups
Host events for specific types of loss—such as child loss, spousal grief, pet loss, or COVID-19 related grief.
5. Creative Therapy Sessions
Offer art journaling, music therapy, or guided meditation sessions virtually to support emotional expression.
How to Organize a Virtual Grief Event
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Choose the Right Platform
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Zoom: Easy for most users and supports breakout rooms
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Google Meet: Free and simple
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Webex or Microsoft Teams: Ideal for businesses with enterprise tools
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Partner with Professionals
Partner with grief counselors, therapists, or hospice organizations for content, facilitation, or co-hosting. -
Set a Schedule
Offer recurring events (e.g., the first Tuesday of each month) so families know what to expect. -
Promote Thoughtfully
Use email follow-ups after funerals, website banners, or social media to share invitations. Provide clear instructions and a welcoming tone. -
Offer Privacy and Guidelines
Ask participants to mute when not speaking, share only what they’re comfortable with, and respect confidentiality.
Tips for a Successful Virtual Event
Send calendar invites and email reminders
Allow time for introductions or optional participation
Use visual prompts or slides to guide discussion
Offer optional breakout rooms for smaller group discussions
Record sessions (with permission) or provide takeaways like grief journals or PDFs
Create a post-event email with additional resources and contact info
Sample Virtual Event Formats
1-Hour Grief Support Group Agenda
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Welcome and overview (5 min)
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Grounding activity (breathing or reflection – 5 min)
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Guided discussion or prompt (30 min)
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Optional open sharing (15 min)
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Closing reflection or poem (5 min)
Webinar Format
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Live expert presentation with slides (30–45 min)
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Live Q&A (15–30 min)
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Optional follow-up email with resources and replay link
How to Integrate These Into Your Funeral Home
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Branded Zoom Rooms: Include your logo and message of care
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Follow-Up Emails: Automatically invite families 2–3 weeks after a service
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Package Offering: Promote grief support as part of your full-service care model
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Community Partnerships: Work with churches, hospice teams, or senior centers to cross-promote
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Testimonials: Capture feedback to show the value of these events on your website or in newsletters
Real-Life Example
A funeral home in Oregon began hosting virtual grief gatherings in 2020. Initially intended as a pandemic stopgap, the program grew into a year-round service with monthly support sessions, seasonal memorials, and guest speakers. Families began returning not just for events—but for preneed planning, urn purchases, and referrals. Their care extended far beyond the chapel—and families noticed.
Tools and Resources
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Canva or Google Slides: To build visual content for events
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Calendly or Eventbrite: For RSVP tracking and scheduling
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Facebook Events or Groups: To engage local audiences
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Oaktree Memorials Blog: Share articles and grief resources before or after events
Final Thoughts
Virtual grief support events are more than a digital convenience—they’re a lifeline for families navigating the isolating terrain of loss. They allow funeral homes to fulfill a deeper mission: not just to arrange a passing, but to care for the living who carry the memory forward.
At Oaktree Memorials, we believe grief care is an ongoing process. That’s why we advocate for services—both physical and digital—that help families feel supported, seen, and connected.
By launching or enhancing your virtual grief offerings, you not only serve your families more fully—you build trust that lasts beyond a single moment of loss.
FAQs
What are the shipping options for my memorial gift?
Oaktree offers free nationwide shipping on all urns and cremation jewelry items, with delivery typically taking 2-5 business days, including processing time. Need it sooner? Expedited shipping (overnight or 2-day) is available at checkout for an additional cost, and we will also prioritize processing for faster delivery. If you need international shipping, please contact us first to confirm availability and rates.
How long will it take for my engraved item to arrive?
Engraved urns and cremation necklaces require an additional 1-3 business days for personalization before shipping. If you need faster delivery, please contact us—we’ll do our best to expedite processing and accommodate your timeline. Expedited shipping options are also available at checkout to ensure your memorial arrives as soon as possible.
What do I do if I never received my order?
If your order hasn’t arrived within 10 business days, please contact us so we can track your shipment and resolve any issues. We’ll ensure your memorial reaches you as soon as possible.
What do I do if I received a defective order?
If your order arrives damaged or defective, contact us right away. We take pride in our high-quality craftsmanship and will work quickly to replace or repair your item at no additional cost.
Can I return my urn or cremation necklace? What is your return policy?
Oaktree offers a 100-day return and exchange policy for non-engraved items. Due to personalization, engraved urns are final sale and cannot be returned. For full details on how to start a return or exchange, visit our Returns & Exchanges page.
How do I make changes to an urn I’ve already ordered?
If you need to modify an order, contact us as soon as possible. If your urn is already engraved, we may not be able to make changes, but we’ll do our best to accommodate your request before processing.
How are your urns made? Where do the materials come from?
Oaktree’s urns are handcrafted in the USA and Europe using sustainable, locally sourced materials. Our artisans ensure each piece is beautifully designed and built to honor your loved one’s memory with care.
How do I choose the right urn size?
Each product page includes detailed dimensions, weight capacity, and cubic inches to help you select the right urn. As a general guide, 1 cubic inch holds 1 pound of pre-cremation weight. If you need help choosing, feel free to contact us.
Some urns are marked as “sold out.” When will they be available?
Our handmade urns may take a few weeks to restock. If you’re interested in a specific style, contact us for an estimated restock date, and we’ll notify you when it’s available.
Does Oaktree place the ashes into my urn?
Yes, we offer an optional ash transfer service for an additional fee. If you’d like us to handle this process, please contact us when placing your order. You’ll need to mail the ashes to us, and we’ll carefully transfer them into your selected urn.
How do I transfer ashes into my urn?
Cremated remains typically arrive in a sealed plastic bag inside a plastic container. To transfer them, simply place the sealed bag inside your urn. If needed, use a funnel for precise placement. If you have any concerns, our team is happy to assist.
How do I order an engraved urn?
To personalize your urn, select “Yes” under “Would you like your item engraved?” on the product page. If you’d like a custom design beyond standard engraving, contact us and we’ll explore options to create a unique tribute.
Can my urn be shipped directly to a funeral home?
Yes! During checkout, you can enter the funeral home’s address for direct shipping.
Can I customize my urn beyond engraving?
Yes! In addition to engraving, we offer custom design services, including unique finishes, symbols, or artwork. If you’d like to personalize your urn beyond standard options, contact us to discuss customization possibilities.
What materials are Oaktree urns made from?
Our urns are crafted from premium materials such as wood, ceramic, marble, metal, and biodegradable materials. We focus on sustainable sourcing and high-quality craftsmanship to create lasting memorials.
Do you offer keepsake urns or mini urns?
Yes, we offer keepsake urns and mini urns, which are smaller versions designed for sharing ashes among family members or keeping a small portion as a personal tribute.
Can I pre-order an urn for future use?
Absolutely! Many customers choose to pre-order an urn in advance. This ensures availability and allows for customization without time constraints. Contact us to arrange a pre-order.
Do you offer pet urns?
Yes, we provide a range of pet memorial urns designed to honor beloved pets. These are available in different materials and sizes to suit dogs, cats, and other pets.
How do I clean and maintain my urn?
Urns require gentle care to maintain their beauty. Use a soft cloth and mild cleaner for metal or ceramic urns. Avoid direct sunlight and moisture to preserve wood urns. Contact us for specific care instructions based on your urn’s material.
Can I travel with an urn? Are they TSA-approved?
Most Oaktree urns are TSA-compliant, making them safe for air travel. Choose a non-metal urn to ensure easy screening. We recommend carrying the urn in your carry-on bag and bringing the cremation certificate from the funeral home.
How do I track my order?
Once your order ships, we’ll send you a tracking number via email. You can use this to monitor the shipment status. If you don’t receive tracking details, contact us for assistance.
How do I contact Oaktree if my question isn’t answered here?
We’re happy to assist! Visit our Contact Us page to reach us via email, chat, or phone. Our compassionate team is ready to help.



