Easing Out of the Holiday Season
The holidays often arrive with warmth, connection, and tradition—but they can also leave behind exhaustion. The pace, expectations, gatherings, and emotional weight of remembrance can linger long after decorations are packed away. For many, especially those carrying grief, the post-holiday period feels quieter, heavier, and in need of care.
This transition is not something to rush through. It is an invitation to slow down and reconnect with the body and breath. Gentle yoga and meditation offer a way to recharge without pressure, helping restore a sense of balance while honoring everything the season stirred within.
Why Gentle Practices Matter After the Holidays
After weeks of stimulation—both joyful and emotionally demanding—the nervous system often needs reassurance. Gentle yoga focuses on slow movement, supported postures, and intentional breathing. Meditation offers stillness without expectation. Together, they create space for release rather than effort.
For those navigating loss, these practices are not about “feeling better” or moving on. They are about allowing the body and mind to soften. Grief often lives physically—in tight shoulders, shallow breathing, restless sleep. Gentle movement and mindful breathing can help ease these sensations without forcing emotional change.
Creating a Calm Space for Practice
A peaceful environment can make even short moments of yoga or meditation feel restorative. This space does not need to be elaborate. A quiet corner, soft lighting, and minimal distractions are often enough.
Many people find comfort in practicing near meaningful memorial items. A small urn placed nearby can serve as a grounding presence, reminding you that remembrance and self-care can coexist. Keepsake urns, in particular, fit naturally into intimate spaces, offering a quiet sense of closeness without drawing attention away from the practice itself.
Lighting a candle before beginning can also signal a transition into stillness. Memorial candle holders create a soft, steady glow that encourages calm and intention, transforming a simple moment into something sacred.
Gentle Yoga as an Act of Self-Compassion
Post-holiday yoga is not about strength or flexibility. It is about listening. Slow stretches, seated poses, and supported movements allow the body to unwind at its own pace. The focus is not on performance, but on sensation and breath.
For many, practicing yoga during this season becomes an act of self-compassion. It acknowledges that the body has carried a great deal—emotionally and physically—and deserves care rather than correction. Even a few minutes of gentle movement can create a sense of relief and grounding.
Some people choose to dedicate their practice to the memory of a loved one. This might be done silently, through intention, or by placing a small memorial object nearby as a reminder of connection. In this way, yoga becomes not only restorative, but meaningful.
Meditation as Quiet Renewal
Meditation after the holidays often feels different than at other times of year. Thoughts may wander toward memories, absences, or reflections on time passing. Rather than resisting this, gentle meditation encourages observation without judgment.
Simple breathing practices—focusing on slow inhales and long exhales—can help settle the mind. Guided meditations centered on gratitude, compassion, or rest may feel especially supportive during this season. The goal is not emptiness, but presence.
Some people find comfort holding or wearing cremation jewelry during meditation. A pendant resting against the chest or a bracelet worn on the wrist can provide a subtle sense of closeness, grounding the practice in love and remembrance without overwhelming it.
Honoring Memory While Restoring Energy
The post-holiday period often brings a shift from outward focus to inward care. Gentle yoga and meditation allow space for reflection without urgency. They offer a way to honor memory while also tending to personal well-being.
Placing a memory object nearby—whether an urn, a keepsake, or a candle—can gently anchor the practice. These items are not distractions, but reminders that rest and remembrance are not separate acts. Caring for yourself is part of honoring the love that remains.
Letting Practices Evolve Naturally
There is no need to establish a rigid routine during this season. Some days may call for movement; others for stillness. Some moments may feel heavy; others unexpectedly light. Allowing yoga and meditation practices to adapt to how you feel honors both the body and the emotional landscape of the moment.
Over time, these practices may become part of a quiet ritual—something you return to when life feels overwhelming or when memory feels close to the surface. Even brief moments of breath awareness or gentle stretching can offer stability and comfort.
A Gentle Path Forward
The weeks following the holidays are not about productivity or resolution. They are about integration—allowing what was felt and remembered to settle gently into daily life. Yoga and meditation provide tools for this process, offering renewal without erasure.
Surrounded by meaningful objects that honor memory—urns that hold presence, keepsakes that connect families, jewelry that carries closeness, candlelight that invites stillness—these practices become more than self-care. They become acts of continuity.
As you move into the new year, let renewal come softly. Let breath guide movement. Let memory coexist with rest. Healing does not require effort—only permission.
FAQs
What are the shipping options for my memorial?
Oaktree offers free nationwide shipping on all urns and cremation jewelry items, with delivery typically taking 2-5 business days, including processing time. Need it sooner? Expedited shipping (overnight or 2-day) is available at checkout for an additional cost, and we will also prioritize processing for faster delivery. If you need international shipping, please contact us first to confirm availability and rates.
How long will it take for my engraved item to arrive?
Engraved urns and cremation necklaces require an additional 1-3 business days for personalization before shipping. If you need faster delivery, please contact us—we’ll do our best to expedite processing and accommodate your timeline. Expedited shipping options are also available at checkout to ensure your memorial arrives as soon as possible.
What do I do if I never received my order?
If your order hasn’t arrived within 10 business days, please contact us so we can track your shipment and resolve any issues. We’ll ensure your memorial reaches you as soon as possible.
What do I do if I received a defective order?
If your order arrives damaged or defective, contact us right away. We take pride in our high-quality craftsmanship and will work quickly to replace or repair your item at no additional cost.
Can I return my urn or cremation necklace? What is your return policy?
Oaktree offers a 100-day return and exchange policy for non-engraved items. Due to personalization, engraved urns are final sale and cannot be returned. For full details on how to start a return or exchange, visit our Returns & Exchanges page.
How do I make changes to an urn I’ve already ordered?
If you need to modify an order, contact us as soon as possible. If your urn is already engraved, we may not be able to make changes, but we’ll do our best to accommodate your request before processing.
How are your urns made? Where do the materials come from?
Oaktree’s urns are handcrafted in the USA and Europe using sustainable, locally sourced materials. Our artisans ensure each piece is beautifully designed and built to honor your loved one’s memory with care.
How do I choose the right urn size?
Each product page includes detailed dimensions, weight capacity, and cubic inches to help you select the right urn. As a general guide, 1 cubic inch holds 1 pound of pre-cremation weight. If you need help choosing, feel free to contact us.
Some urns are marked as “sold out.” When will they be available?
Our handmade urns may take a few weeks to restock. If you’re interested in a specific style, contact us for an estimated restock date, and we’ll notify you when it’s available.
Does Oaktree place the ashes into my urn?
Yes, we offer an optional ash transfer service for an additional fee. If you’d like us to handle this process, please contact us when placing your order. You’ll need to mail the ashes to us, and we’ll carefully transfer them into your selected urn.
How do I transfer ashes into my urn?
Cremated remains typically arrive in a sealed plastic bag inside a plastic container. To transfer them, simply place the sealed bag inside your urn. If needed, use a funnel for precise placement. If you have any concerns, our team is happy to assist.
How do I order an engraved urn?
To personalize your urn, select “Yes” under “Would you like your item engraved?” on the product page. If you’d like a custom design beyond standard engraving, contact us and we’ll explore options to create a unique tribute.
Can my urn be shipped directly to a funeral home?
Yes! During checkout, you can enter the funeral home’s address for direct shipping.
Can I customize my urn beyond engraving?
Yes! In addition to engraving, we offer custom design services, including unique finishes, symbols, or artwork. If you’d like to personalize your urn beyond standard options, contact us to discuss customization possibilities.
What materials are Oaktree urns made from?
Our urns are crafted from premium materials such as wood, ceramic, marble, metal, and biodegradable materials. We focus on sustainable sourcing and high-quality craftsmanship to create lasting memorials.
Do you offer keepsake urns or mini urns?
Yes, we offer keepsake urns and mini urns, which are smaller versions designed for sharing ashes among family members or keeping a small portion as a personal tribute.
Can I pre-order an urn for future use?
Absolutely! Many customers choose to pre-order an urn in advance. This ensures availability and allows for customization without time constraints. Contact us to arrange a pre-order.
Do you offer pet urns?
Yes, we provide a range of pet memorial urns designed to honor beloved pets. These are available in different materials and sizes to suit dogs, cats, and other pets.
How do I clean and maintain my urn?
Urns require gentle care to maintain their beauty. Use a soft cloth and mild cleaner for metal or ceramic urns. Avoid direct sunlight and moisture to preserve wood urns. Contact us for specific care instructions based on your urn’s material.
Can I travel with an urn? Are they TSA-approved?
Most Oaktree urns are TSA-compliant, making them safe for air travel. Choose a non-metal urn to ensure easy screening. We recommend carrying the urn in your carry-on bag and bringing the cremation certificate from the funeral home.
How do I track my order?
Once your order ships, we’ll send you a tracking number via email. You can use this to monitor the shipment status. If you don’t receive tracking details, contact us for assistance.
How do I contact Oaktree if my question isn’t answered here?
We’re happy to assist! Visit our Contact Us page to reach us via email, chat, or phone. Our compassionate team is ready to help.




