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Honoring Loved Ones: How to Display an Urn at Home with Meaning

Written by: Oaktree Memorials

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Honoring the memory of a loved one through the thoughtful display of a cremation urn is a deeply personal and meaningful act.

Losing a loved one is one of the most profound and challenging experiences we can face in life. As we navigate the complex emotions of grief, finding ways to memorialize and honor our departed loved ones becomes a deeply personal and meaningful journey. One important aspect of this process is the thoughtful display of a cremation urn within our homes.


At Oaktree Memorials, we understand the significance of this decision. Our wide selection of beautiful cremation jewelry, including pendants, necklaces, and bracelets, offers a tangible way to carry the memory of your loved one with you. But the display of the urn itself can also serve as a powerful symbol of remembrance and connection.

Choosing the Right Location

When it comes to displaying a cremation urn at home, the location you choose can have a profound impact on the emotional significance of the memorial. Consider the spaces in your home that hold the most personal meaning – perhaps a cozy corner of the living room, a peaceful nook in the bedroom, or a dedicated area in your home office. These areas can provide a sense of comfort and familiarity, allowing you to feel closer to your loved one.


It's important to also consider the ambiance and energy of the space. A serene, well-lit area that promotes a sense of calm and reflection can be an ideal setting for the urn's display. Avoid high-traffic zones or areas that may feel cluttered or chaotic, as these can detract from the reverence of the memorial.

Creative Display Ideas

Once you've identified the perfect spot, it's time to get creative with your urn display. Shelving and mantel arrangements can provide a beautiful and prominent showcase for the urn, allowing you to surround it with meaningful mementos, photographs, and other personal items. Consider incorporating elements that reflect your loved one's interests or hobbies, such as their favorite flowers, books, or artwork.


If you prefer a more subtle approach, you might opt for a dedicated side table or end table display, where the urn can be the centerpiece of a thoughtfully curated vignette. Incorporate candles, framed photos, and other sentimental objects to create a serene and contemplative atmosphere.

Respectful Placement Guidelines

When displaying a cremation urn, it's important to be mindful of cultural and personal sensitivities. Avoid placing the urn in high-traffic areas or in a way that may feel disrespectful or uncomfortable for family members or visitors. Instead, choose a location that balances visibility and privacy, allowing you to honor your loved one's memory while also maintaining a sense of reverence and personal space.

Complementing the Urn

The urn itself can be a beautiful and meaningful focal point, but you can further enhance the display by incorporating complementary elements. Consider adding framed photographs, personal mementos, or even a small vase of flowers to create a cohesive and visually appealing memorial. These additional touches can help to personalize the space and make it a true reflection of your loved one's life and legacy.

Emotional Considerations

Displaying a cremation urn at home can be a deeply emotional and healing process. As you navigate the complexities of grief, the act of memorializing your loved one can provide a sense of comfort and connection. Involve family members in the process, allowing them to contribute their own ideas and personal touches. This collaborative approach can foster a shared sense of remembrance and support during this difficult time.

Practical Tips

While the emotional significance of the urn display is paramount, there are also practical considerations to keep in mind. Ensure that the urn is placed in a stable and secure location, protecting it from potential damage or accidental displacement. Regular dusting and cleaning of the display area can help to maintain the urn's pristine condition, allowing it to remain a cherished centerpiece for years to come.

Conclusion

Honoring the memory of a loved one through the thoughtful display of a cremation urn is a deeply personal and meaningful act. By choosing the right location, incorporating creative elements, and considering the emotional and practical aspects of the memorial, you can create a space that celebrates the life and legacy of your departed loved one. At Oaktree Memorials, we are here to support you on this journey, offering a wide selection of beautiful cremation jewelry and guidance to help you find the most meaningful way to memorialize your loved one.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What are the shipping options for my memorial?

Oaktree offers free nationwide shipping on all urns and cremation jewelry items, with delivery typically taking 2-5 business days, including processing time. Need it sooner? Expedited shipping (overnight or 2-day) is available at checkout for an additional cost, and we will also prioritize processing for faster delivery. If you need international shipping, please contact us first to confirm availability and rates.

How long will it take for my engraved item to arrive?

Engraved urns and cremation necklaces require an additional 1-3 business days for personalization before shipping. If you need faster delivery, please contact us—we’ll do our best to expedite processing and accommodate your timeline. Expedited shipping options are also available at checkout to ensure your memorial arrives as soon as possible.

What do I do if I never received my order?

If your order hasn’t arrived within 10 business days, please contact us so we can track your shipment and resolve any issues. We’ll ensure your memorial reaches you as soon as possible.

What do I do if I received a defective order?

If your order arrives damaged or defective, contact us right away. We take pride in our high-quality craftsmanship and will work quickly to replace or repair your item at no additional cost.

Can I return my urn or cremation necklace? What is your return policy?

Oaktree offers a 100-day return and exchange policy for non-engraved items. Due to personalization, engraved urns are final sale and cannot be returned. For full details on how to start a return or exchange, visit our Returns & Exchanges page.

How do I make changes to an urn I’ve already ordered?

If you need to modify an order, contact us as soon as possible. If your urn is already engraved, we may not be able to make changes, but we’ll do our best to accommodate your request before processing.

How are your urns made? Where do the materials come from?

Oaktree’s urns are handcrafted in the USA and Europe using sustainable, locally sourced materials. Our artisans ensure each piece is beautifully designed and built to honor your loved one’s memory with care.

How do I choose the right urn size?

Each product page includes detailed dimensions, weight capacity, and cubic inches to help you select the right urn. As a general guide, 1 cubic inch holds 1 pound of pre-cremation weight. If you need help choosing, feel free to contact us.

Some urns are marked as “sold out.” When will they be available?

Our handmade urns may take a few weeks to restock. If you’re interested in a specific style, contact us for an estimated restock date, and we’ll notify you when it’s available.

Does Oaktree place the ashes into my urn?

Yes, we offer an optional ash transfer service for an additional fee. If you’d like us to handle this process, please contact us when placing your order. You’ll need to mail the ashes to us, and we’ll carefully transfer them into your selected urn.

How do I transfer ashes into my urn?

Cremated remains typically arrive in a sealed plastic bag inside a plastic container. To transfer them, simply place the sealed bag inside your urn. If needed, use a funnel for precise placement. If you have any concerns, our team is happy to assist.

How do I order an engraved urn?

To personalize your urn, select “Yes” under “Would you like your item engraved?” on the product page. If you’d like a custom design beyond standard engraving, contact us and we’ll explore options to create a unique tribute.

Can my urn be shipped directly to a funeral home?

Yes! During checkout, you can enter the funeral home’s address for direct shipping.

Can I customize my urn beyond engraving?

Yes! In addition to engraving, we offer custom design services, including unique finishes, symbols, or artwork. If you’d like to personalize your urn beyond standard options, contact us to discuss customization possibilities.

What materials are Oaktree urns made from?

Our urns are crafted from premium materials such as wood, ceramic, marble, metal, and biodegradable materials. We focus on sustainable sourcing and high-quality craftsmanship to create lasting memorials.

Do you offer keepsake urns or mini urns?

Yes, we offer keepsake urns and mini urns, which are smaller versions designed for sharing ashes among family members or keeping a small portion as a personal tribute.

Can I pre-order an urn for future use?

Absolutely! Many customers choose to pre-order an urn in advance. This ensures availability and allows for customization without time constraints. Contact us to arrange a pre-order.

Do you offer pet urns?

Yes, we provide a range of pet memorial urns designed to honor beloved pets. These are available in different materials and sizes to suit dogs, cats, and other pets.

How do I clean and maintain my urn?

Urns require gentle care to maintain their beauty. Use a soft cloth and mild cleaner for metal or ceramic urns. Avoid direct sunlight and moisture to preserve wood urns. Contact us for specific care instructions based on your urn’s material.

Can I travel with an urn? Are they TSA-approved?

Most Oaktree urns are TSA-compliant, making them safe for air travel. Choose a non-metal urn to ensure easy screening. We recommend carrying the urn in your carry-on bag and bringing the cremation certificate from the funeral home.

How do I track my order?

Once your order ships, we’ll send you a tracking number via email. You can use this to monitor the shipment status. If you don’t receive tracking details, contact us for assistance.

How do I contact Oaktree if my question isn’t answered here?

We’re happy to assist! Visit our Contact Us page to reach us via email, chat, or phone. Our compassionate team is ready to help.