Creating Memorial Bookmarks: DIY Literary Tributes

Creating Memorial Bookmarks: DIY Literary Tributes

Written by: Oaktree Memorials

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For those who love books, words hold deep emotional power. They comfort, connect, and preserve memories long after we’ve turned the final page. Creating memorial bookmarks — simple, heartfelt keepsakes inspired by reading and reflection — is a beautiful way to honor someone’s life while sharing their story with others.

These bookmarks can be handed out at a memorial service, included in thank-you cards, or made privately as part of your own healing process. Whether printed, handwritten, or handmade, they serve as lasting reminders that love, like good literature, endures beyond time.


Why Memorial Bookmarks Matter

Memorial bookmarks blend sentiment with simplicity. They are small enough to keep close — tucked inside a favorite novel, journal, or Bible — yet powerful enough to evoke cherished memories each time they’re seen.

Unlike traditional memorial programs, bookmarks are personal and functional. They remind us that remembrance can be woven into everyday life — through small gestures, meaningful words, and the quiet act of reading.

For many families, creating these bookmarks becomes a shared creative ritual — a chance to reflect together, choose meaningful words, and turn grief into something tangible and beautiful.


Choosing the Right Design and Theme

When designing a memorial bookmark, begin by considering what best reflects your loved one’s personality, passions, and legacy. Think about:

  • Color palette: Earth tones for simplicity, pastels for softness, or brighter hues for those who brought joy and energy to others.

  • Imagery: Photos, floral designs, nature motifs, or symbols of faith or hobbies.

  • Style: Minimalist, modern, vintage, or rustic — whatever feels most authentic.

  • Tone: Whether you want the bookmark to feel solemn, hopeful, or celebratory.

You can create these designs digitally using design tools like Canva or have them professionally printed on cardstock. If you prefer handmade touches, watercolor paints, pressed flowers, or handwritten quotes can make each bookmark one-of-a-kind.


What to Include on a Memorial Bookmark

Each element on a memorial bookmark adds meaning and connection. While there’s no set formula, here are common components to consider:

  • Photo: A clear, warm image that captures your loved one’s spirit.

  • Name and dates: Their full name and birth/death years.

  • Quote or scripture: A favorite poem, line from a book, or passage that captures their essence.

  • Personal message: A short phrase or saying they often used.

  • Artwork or symbol: Illustrations that reflect their interests — flowers, mountains, birds, books, or musical notes.

A few examples of meaningful text might include:

  • “Forever in our hearts, forever in our stories.”

  • “Her life was a beautiful chapter.”

  • “Those we love never truly leave us; they live on in the stories we tell.”

  • “The end of one story is the beginning of another.”

These lines can bring warmth and comfort to anyone who receives the bookmark.


The Process: Making Your Own Memorial Bookmarks

Creating DIY memorial bookmarks doesn’t require advanced crafting skills — only intention and care.

1. Gather materials.
Cardstock, paper cutter, laminator (optional), glue, ribbon, photos, decorative paper, and pens.

2. Design the layout.
Decide on size (standard bookmarks are 2”x6”). Include space for a photo or text and plan the placement of each element.

3. Choose your text.
Select a quote or passage that feels most connected to your loved one’s life or personality.

4. Add visual details.
Decorate with borders, pressed flowers, ribbons, or printed artwork. You can even incorporate textures like linen or recycled paper for a tactile feel.

5. Print and finish.
Print designs on thick paper or cardstock, laminate for durability, and tie a ribbon or tassel through a small punched hole at the top.

Each bookmark becomes a small piece of art — a tangible way to remember, hold, and share.


Sharing Memorial Bookmarks with Others

Memorial bookmarks make beautiful additions to remembrance ceremonies, celebrations of life, or private moments of reflection. They can be distributed:

  • At the entrance or exit of a funeral or memorial service.

  • Inside thank-you cards sent after the service.

  • As gifts for family and friends on anniversaries or birthdays.

  • Alongside a book donation or library memorial.

You might also leave a few bookmarks inside books your loved one cherished — a poetic way of continuing their story in the hands of others.


Adding a Personal Touch

For an even more intimate tribute, consider adding something unique to each bookmark. Examples include:

  • A handwritten message or signature from your loved one, if available.

  • A QR code that links to a digital photo album, memorial website, or favorite playlist.

  • Small pressed flowers or leaves from their garden.

  • Custom scents using lightly sprayed essential oils (lavender, rose, or cedar).

Each variation tells a slightly different story — together forming a collective portrait of a life well-lived.


Memorial Bookmarks as Healing Art

The act of creating memorial bookmarks can itself be a healing process. It invites stillness, focus, and creativity — all of which soothe the mind and nurture reflection. As you cut, write, and arrange, you may find moments of peace and connection.

Crafting these pieces is more than remembrance; it’s a way of continuing the relationship. Each bookmark you create is another chance to express love, to transform grief into something tangible, and to honor the story that shaped your own.


Bringing It All Together

At Oaktree Memorials, we believe that remembrance lives in the details — in objects that carry meaning and moments that connect us to those we miss. Memorial bookmarks are small, humble, and profound; they remind us that legacy can live between the lines of a favorite book, in the quiet rhythm of a page turned.

Whether you design one for yourself, share them with family, or include them in a memorial service, these literary tributes can keep a loved one’s spirit close.

Because just like a story, love doesn’t end — it simply continues in the margins.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What are the shipping options for my memorial?

Oaktree offers free nationwide shipping on all urns and cremation jewelry items, with delivery typically taking 2-5 business days, including processing time. Need it sooner? Expedited shipping (overnight or 2-day) is available at checkout for an additional cost, and we will also prioritize processing for faster delivery. If you need international shipping, please contact us first to confirm availability and rates.

How long will it take for my engraved item to arrive?

Engraved urns and cremation necklaces require an additional 1-3 business days for personalization before shipping. If you need faster delivery, please contact us—we’ll do our best to expedite processing and accommodate your timeline. Expedited shipping options are also available at checkout to ensure your memorial arrives as soon as possible.

What do I do if I never received my order?

If your order hasn’t arrived within 10 business days, please contact us so we can track your shipment and resolve any issues. We’ll ensure your memorial reaches you as soon as possible.

What do I do if I received a defective order?

If your order arrives damaged or defective, contact us right away. We take pride in our high-quality craftsmanship and will work quickly to replace or repair your item at no additional cost.

Can I return my urn or cremation necklace? What is your return policy?

Oaktree offers a 100-day return and exchange policy for non-engraved items. Due to personalization, engraved urns are final sale and cannot be returned. For full details on how to start a return or exchange, visit our Returns & Exchanges page.

How do I make changes to an urn I’ve already ordered?

If you need to modify an order, contact us as soon as possible. If your urn is already engraved, we may not be able to make changes, but we’ll do our best to accommodate your request before processing.

How are your urns made? Where do the materials come from?

Oaktree’s urns are handcrafted in the USA and Europe using sustainable, locally sourced materials. Our artisans ensure each piece is beautifully designed and built to honor your loved one’s memory with care.

How do I choose the right urn size?

Each product page includes detailed dimensions, weight capacity, and cubic inches to help you select the right urn. As a general guide, 1 cubic inch holds 1 pound of pre-cremation weight. If you need help choosing, feel free to contact us.

Some urns are marked as “sold out.” When will they be available?

Our handmade urns may take a few weeks to restock. If you’re interested in a specific style, contact us for an estimated restock date, and we’ll notify you when it’s available.

Does Oaktree place the ashes into my urn?

Yes, we offer an optional ash transfer service for an additional fee. If you’d like us to handle this process, please contact us when placing your order. You’ll need to mail the ashes to us, and we’ll carefully transfer them into your selected urn.

How do I transfer ashes into my urn?

Cremated remains typically arrive in a sealed plastic bag inside a plastic container. To transfer them, simply place the sealed bag inside your urn. If needed, use a funnel for precise placement. If you have any concerns, our team is happy to assist.

How do I order an engraved urn?

To personalize your urn, select “Yes” under “Would you like your item engraved?” on the product page. If you’d like a custom design beyond standard engraving, contact us and we’ll explore options to create a unique tribute.

Can my urn be shipped directly to a funeral home?

Yes! During checkout, you can enter the funeral home’s address for direct shipping.

Can I customize my urn beyond engraving?

Yes! In addition to engraving, we offer custom design services, including unique finishes, symbols, or artwork. If you’d like to personalize your urn beyond standard options, contact us to discuss customization possibilities.

What materials are Oaktree urns made from?

Our urns are crafted from premium materials such as wood, ceramic, marble, metal, and biodegradable materials. We focus on sustainable sourcing and high-quality craftsmanship to create lasting memorials.

Do you offer keepsake urns or mini urns?

Yes, we offer keepsake urns and mini urns, which are smaller versions designed for sharing ashes among family members or keeping a small portion as a personal tribute.

Can I pre-order an urn for future use?

Absolutely! Many customers choose to pre-order an urn in advance. This ensures availability and allows for customization without time constraints. Contact us to arrange a pre-order.

Do you offer pet urns?

Yes, we provide a range of pet memorial urns designed to honor beloved pets. These are available in different materials and sizes to suit dogs, cats, and other pets.

How do I clean and maintain my urn?

Urns require gentle care to maintain their beauty. Use a soft cloth and mild cleaner for metal or ceramic urns. Avoid direct sunlight and moisture to preserve wood urns. Contact us for specific care instructions based on your urn’s material.

Can I travel with an urn? Are they TSA-approved?

Most Oaktree urns are TSA-compliant, making them safe for air travel. Choose a non-metal urn to ensure easy screening. We recommend carrying the urn in your carry-on bag and bringing the cremation certificate from the funeral home.

How do I track my order?

Once your order ships, we’ll send you a tracking number via email. You can use this to monitor the shipment status. If you don’t receive tracking details, contact us for assistance.

How do I contact Oaktree if my question isn’t answered here?

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