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Cremation Jewelry Maintenance: Cleaning and Care Tips

Written by: Oaktree Memorials

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Cremation jewelry is more than just a keepsake—it’s a deeply personal expression of love, memory, and enduring connection.

The Beauty and Sentiment of Cremation Jewelry


Cremation jewelry is more than a fashion accessory—it’s a deeply personal keepsake that allows you to carry the memory of a loved one close. Whether it contains ashes, a lock of hair, or simply symbolizes your loss, proper care ensures your piece stays beautiful and meaningful for years to come.


Because cremation jewelry is often worn daily, it can be subject to wear and environmental damage. This guide will walk you through how to clean, care for, and protect your cremation jewelry to preserve both its appearance and sentimental value.


Know Your Materials


The care requirements for cremation jewelry vary depending on the material. Oaktree Memorials offers jewelry in a variety of metals, including:


  • Sterling Silver

  • Stainless Steel

  • Gold Vermeil

  • 14K Solid Gold

  • Rose Gold

  • Titanium


Understanding the properties of your piece helps you maintain it properly. For example, sterling silver is beautiful but prone to tarnishing. Stainless steel is durable and low-maintenance, while solid gold is valuable and resistant to corrosion.


You can find details about each material in your product listing or on Oaktree’s Cremation Jewelry Collection.


Daily Wear Tips


To minimize wear and tear on your jewelry:


  • Remove it before showering, swimming, or exercising

  • Keep it away from lotions, perfumes, and hairsprays

  • Avoid wearing it to bed, where it can snag or bend

  • Store it in a dry, shaded place when not in use


These simple practices can drastically reduce tarnish, residue buildup, and physical damage over time.


Cleaning Cremation Jewelry Safely


Even with gentle wear, your jewelry will accumulate oils, dirt, and exposure to the elements. Here’s how to clean it safely depending on the metal:


For Sterling Silver:


Use a silver polishing cloth to remove tarnish. If deeper cleaning is needed:


  1. Mix a few drops of mild dish soap in warm water

  2. Dip a soft cloth into the solution and gently wipe the jewelry

  3. Rinse under cool water and pat dry with a soft cloth

  4. Avoid soaking, as water could seep into the sealed compartment



For Stainless Steel and Titanium:


These metals are easier to maintain:


  1. Use a soft cloth dampened with water and soap

  2. Rinse and dry thoroughly

  3. Use a microfiber cloth to polish


Avoid abrasive brushes or harsh cleaners, which can scratch the surface.


For Gold and Rose Gold Vermeil:


These plated metals need gentle handling:


  1. Use a very soft cloth to clean surface oils and smudges

  2. Avoid chemical cleaners and polishing cloths with embedded abrasives

  3. Store in a fabric-lined jewelry box to reduce oxidation and scratching



For Solid Gold (14K):


While gold is low-maintenance, it benefits from occasional cleaning:


  1. Use a mix of warm water and a drop of dish soap

  2. Soak for 10–15 minutes

  3. Gently brush with a soft toothbrush, then rinse

  4. Pat dry with a lint-free cloth



Inspect Seals and Fastenings


Many cremation jewelry pieces include secure closures or screw tops that hold ashes inside. Over time, these parts may loosen or accumulate buildup. Regularly check:


  • That the screw cap is tight and sealed

  • That no moisture has entered the compartment

  • That clasps and chains are secure and unbent


If your piece is sealed permanently, avoid soaking or exposing it to extreme temperatures.


Professional Maintenance Options


For deeper cleaning or repair needs, consult a jeweler with experience handling memorial jewelry. They can:


  • Polish metal surfaces without disturbing internal contents

  • Replace chains or clasps

  • Reset stones or engravings

  • Check for internal moisture or corrosion


Oaktree Memorials also offers guidance if your piece needs replacement or restoration. Contact our team via customer support for assistance.


How to Store Cremation Jewelry


Proper storage reduces the need for frequent cleaning and minimizes exposure to environmental elements. Store your piece:


  • In a fabric-lined box or pouch

  • Away from direct sunlight and humidity

  • Separate from other jewelry to avoid scratches


Oaktree’s Memory Box is ideal for keeping jewelry, small keepsakes, and photos in one respectful place.


Engraving and Custom Design Care


Many cremation jewelry pieces are engraved with initials, dates, or symbols. These details require special care:


  • Clean around engravings gently with a soft cloth

  • Use cotton swabs to get into crevices

  • Avoid polishing too hard or using abrasive cleaners that could wear down etching


If your engraving begins to fade over time, professional jewelers may be able to refresh the design.


Caring for Jewelry with Inlays or Gemstones


Some memorial jewelry includes accents like:


  • Opal or mother-of-pearl

  • Birthstones

  • Crushed glass or resin

  • Diamond simulants or lab-grown stones


These components can be delicate. Follow these tips:


  • Avoid harsh chemicals or ultrasonic cleaners

  • Use only soft, damp cloths to clean

  • Do not soak pieces with organic materials or porous stones


Each inlay or stone requires slightly different care, so refer to your product card or the Oaktree product page for more information.


What to Avoid


To ensure the longevity of your memorial jewelry, avoid:


  • Chlorine (especially in pools and hot tubs)

  • Household cleaners like bleach or ammonia

  • High-heat environments (e.g., saunas, direct sunlight)

  • Jewelry dips unless labeled safe for your specific metal


These substances can erode metal, damage compartments, and harm the ashes or materials inside.


When to Retire a Piece from Daily Wear


If your jewelry has sentimental value but is showing signs of wear, you may choose to transition it to occasional use and store it safely. You might also:


  • Order a replica or duplicate piece

  • Commission a new design using the original ashes

  • Display the piece inside a memorial shadow box


Caring for your jewelry also means honoring when it needs rest or protection.


Final Thoughts


Cremation jewelry is more than just a keepsake—it’s a deeply personal expression of love, memory, and enduring connection. Worn close to the heart or kept in a special place at home, these pieces serve as daily reminders of the bond you continue to carry. With thoughtful care and gentle handling, your jewelry can remain a beautiful tribute for years, offering comfort and presence in even the quietest moments of grief.


Whether you’ve chosen a minimalist pendant, a detailed ring, or a custom-engraved charm, your attention to upkeep honors not just the item—but the person it represents. A simple cleaning routine, safe storage, and occasional check-ins help preserve both its appearance and meaning. By maintaining its beauty, you also preserve the emotional story it holds.


At Oaktree Memorials, we understand that cremation jewelry isn’t just about style—it’s about sentiment. That’s why we’re committed to offering not only thoughtfully designed and high-quality pieces, but also the knowledge and tools you need to care for them properly. We want every customer to feel empowered in preserving what matters most.


If you have questions or need specific guidance on how to clean, store, or protect your jewelry, our team is always here to help. Explore our full cremation jewelry collection to find pieces that speak to your story, or reach out for care tips tailored to your item. With the right attention, your piece can remain a radiant, lasting reflection of love.

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FAQs

What are the shipping options for my memorial?

Oaktree offers free nationwide shipping on all urns and cremation jewelry items, with delivery typically taking 2-5 business days, including processing time. Need it sooner? Expedited shipping (overnight or 2-day) is available at checkout for an additional cost, and we will also prioritize processing for faster delivery. If you need international shipping, please contact us first to confirm availability and rates.

How long will it take for my engraved item to arrive?

Engraved urns and cremation necklaces require an additional 1-3 business days for personalization before shipping. If you need faster delivery, please contact us—we’ll do our best to expedite processing and accommodate your timeline. Expedited shipping options are also available at checkout to ensure your memorial arrives as soon as possible.

What do I do if I never received my order?

If your order hasn’t arrived within 10 business days, please contact us so we can track your shipment and resolve any issues. We’ll ensure your memorial reaches you as soon as possible.

What do I do if I received a defective order?

If your order arrives damaged or defective, contact us right away. We take pride in our high-quality craftsmanship and will work quickly to replace or repair your item at no additional cost.

Can I return my urn or cremation necklace? What is your return policy?

Oaktree offers a 100-day return and exchange policy for non-engraved items. Due to personalization, engraved urns are final sale and cannot be returned. For full details on how to start a return or exchange, visit our Returns & Exchanges page.

How do I make changes to an urn I’ve already ordered?

If you need to modify an order, contact us as soon as possible. If your urn is already engraved, we may not be able to make changes, but we’ll do our best to accommodate your request before processing.

How are your urns made? Where do the materials come from?

Oaktree’s urns are handcrafted in the USA and Europe using sustainable, locally sourced materials. Our artisans ensure each piece is beautifully designed and built to honor your loved one’s memory with care.

How do I choose the right urn size?

Each product page includes detailed dimensions, weight capacity, and cubic inches to help you select the right urn. As a general guide, 1 cubic inch holds 1 pound of pre-cremation weight. If you need help choosing, feel free to contact us.

Some urns are marked as “sold out.” When will they be available?

Our handmade urns may take a few weeks to restock. If you’re interested in a specific style, contact us for an estimated restock date, and we’ll notify you when it’s available.

Does Oaktree place the ashes into my urn?

Yes, we offer an optional ash transfer service for an additional fee. If you’d like us to handle this process, please contact us when placing your order. You’ll need to mail the ashes to us, and we’ll carefully transfer them into your selected urn.

How do I transfer ashes into my urn?

Cremated remains typically arrive in a sealed plastic bag inside a plastic container. To transfer them, simply place the sealed bag inside your urn. If needed, use a funnel for precise placement. If you have any concerns, our team is happy to assist.

How do I order an engraved urn?

To personalize your urn, select “Yes” under “Would you like your item engraved?” on the product page. If you’d like a custom design beyond standard engraving, contact us and we’ll explore options to create a unique tribute.

Can my urn be shipped directly to a funeral home?

Yes! During checkout, you can enter the funeral home’s address for direct shipping.

Can I customize my urn beyond engraving?

Yes! In addition to engraving, we offer custom design services, including unique finishes, symbols, or artwork. If you’d like to personalize your urn beyond standard options, contact us to discuss customization possibilities.

What materials are Oaktree urns made from?

Our urns are crafted from premium materials such as wood, ceramic, marble, metal, and biodegradable materials. We focus on sustainable sourcing and high-quality craftsmanship to create lasting memorials.

Do you offer keepsake urns or mini urns?

Yes, we offer keepsake urns and mini urns, which are smaller versions designed for sharing ashes among family members or keeping a small portion as a personal tribute.

Can I pre-order an urn for future use?

Absolutely! Many customers choose to pre-order an urn in advance. This ensures availability and allows for customization without time constraints. Contact us to arrange a pre-order.

Do you offer pet urns?

Yes, we provide a range of pet memorial urns designed to honor beloved pets. These are available in different materials and sizes to suit dogs, cats, and other pets.

How do I clean and maintain my urn?

Urns require gentle care to maintain their beauty. Use a soft cloth and mild cleaner for metal or ceramic urns. Avoid direct sunlight and moisture to preserve wood urns. Contact us for specific care instructions based on your urn’s material.

Can I travel with an urn? Are they TSA-approved?

Most Oaktree urns are TSA-compliant, making them safe for air travel. Choose a non-metal urn to ensure easy screening. We recommend carrying the urn in your carry-on bag and bringing the cremation certificate from the funeral home.

How do I track my order?

Once your order ships, we’ll send you a tracking number via email. You can use this to monitor the shipment status. If you don’t receive tracking details, contact us for assistance.

How do I contact Oaktree if my question isn’t answered here?

We’re happy to assist! Visit our Contact Us page to reach us via email, chat, or phone. Our compassionate team is ready to help.

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