
Funeral Etiquette Guide: How to Attend a Service with Respect
Learn essential funeral etiquette tips to navigate services and ceremonies with respect, from what to wear to how to support grieving families thoughtfully.
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The holidays are a time to cherish memories, honor loved ones, and share thoughtful gestures with those closest to our hearts. At Oaktree Memorials, we believe in creating meaningful gifts that carry sentimental value and provide comfort to families during life’s most challenging moments.
If you’re looking for unique and heartfelt gifts this holiday season, we’ve curated a guide featuring timeless options from Oaktree Memorials to suit every family, friend, or loved one in your life.
For many, wearing a piece of jewelry that holds a loved one’s ashes or reminds them of cherished memories can provide a comforting sense of connection. Oaktree Memorials offers a range of memorial jewelry that blends sophistication with meaning.
Teardrop Pendant
This elegant teardrop-shaped pendant can hold a small portion of cremated remains or a lock of hair. Perfect for anyone wanting a discreet yet beautiful way to honor someone special.
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Gold-Plated Memorial Necklace
A timeless design that suits any wardrobe, this necklace is a thoughtful gift for someone who values sentimental keepsakes.
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Pyramid Charm Necklace
Personalize a necklace with the name of a loved one. Available in multiple finishes, it’s a truly one-of-a-kind gift.
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Keepsake boxes provide a beautiful way to store small mementos, photos, or letters that hold significance. A personalized touch can make this gift even more meaningful.
Engraved Wooden Keepsake Urn
Made from high-quality wood, this box can be customized with names, dates, or a special message. It’s an ideal gift for families who treasure tangible memories.
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Simple, Sleek Keepsake Bird Urn
A unique tribute, this keepsake urn offers elegance and functionality, perfect for honoring life with individuality.
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Choosing an urn is a deeply personal decision, but giving one as a gift can be a heartfelt way to help someone honor their loved one. Oaktree Memorials provides an array of designs that are both tasteful and comforting.
Classic Marble Cremation Urn
A timeless choice made from authentic marble, symbolizing strength and permanence.
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Handcrafted, One-of-a-Kind Urn
A truly unique urn for a unique life to honor, the Bleecker urn is unlike any other urn you will find.
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Handcrafted Ceramic Urn
Featuring unique designs by local artisans, each ceramic urn is a work of art.
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Pets are family too, and their loss is deeply felt. Show someone you care about their grief with a thoughtful pet memorial.
Paw Print Memorial Urn
A touching tribute to a beloved pet, these urns can be engraved with the pet’s name and years of life.
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Pet Memorial Frame with Ashes Holder
A dual-purpose frame that displays a cherished photo and holds a small amount of ashes.
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Modern Pet Cremation Necklace
Immortalize a pet’s likeness with a handcrafted cremation necklace. Available in silver, rose gold and gold.
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The holiday season can bring financial stress, but that doesn’t mean you need to compromise on thoughtful, meaningful gifts. These affordable options offer heartfelt ways to show you care.
Mini Keepsake Urns
Compact and affordable, these urns are perfect for sharing ashes among family members. Available in various designs and colors.
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Memorial Jewelry
A practical and sentimental way to carry a memory everywhere. Choose from several customizable designs.
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Personalized Candle
Add a name, date, or message to this candle, which provides a warm, soothing glow in remembrance.
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At Oaktree Memorials, we take pride in offering high-quality, handcrafted items designed to honor life’s most meaningful moments. With over 15,000 families served and a commitment to compassionate service, you can trust that each product reflects care, attention, and respect.
This holiday season, give the gift of remembrance and connection. Whether it’s a simple keepsake or a grand gesture, Oaktree Memorials is here to help you find the perfect item to honor your loved ones and create lasting memories.
Browse Our Holiday Collection and make this season a little brighter for someone you care about.
The holiday season is a time for reflection, connection, and honoring the people and experiences that shape our lives. For those who have lost a loved one, the holidays can be bittersweet—a season filled with cherished traditions, but also a reminder of those who are no longer with us. Holiday memorial gifting offers a heartfelt way to bridge the gap between joy and remembrance, providing comfort and connection during this emotional time.
Memorial gifts hold unique significance because they allow us to celebrate a loved one’s life in a meaningful and tangible way. A personalized keepsake, a piece of memorial jewelry, or a custom ornament serves as a gentle reminder that their presence is still felt. These gifts help to honor cherished memories and can become a source of solace for years to come.
The act of giving a memorial gift is also a deeply compassionate gesture. It shows someone that you understand and acknowledge their loss, offering them support and love in a way that words alone may not convey. It is a way to say, "I see your grief, and I want to help you keep their memory alive." This is especially impactful during the holidays when the absence of loved ones can feel most pronounced.
Memorial gifting can also create new traditions. For example, a custom ornament on the family tree or lighting a remembrance candle each year can become a meaningful way to honor someone’s memory. These small acts provide comfort and continuity, helping families feel connected even as they navigate the changes brought by loss.
Ultimately, holiday memorial gifts go beyond material items—they carry the power of connection, healing, and remembrance. They remind us that love endures, even in the face of loss, and that our cherished memories have a lasting place in our lives. This holiday season, giving the gift of remembrance is a beautiful way to honor those we hold dear while bringing comfort to those who need it most.
Learn essential funeral etiquette tips to navigate services and ceremonies with respect, from what to wear to how to support grieving families thoughtfully.
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What are the shipping options for my memorial?
Oaktree offers free nationwide shipping on all urns and cremation jewelry items, with delivery typically taking 2-5 business days, including processing time. Need it sooner? Expedited shipping (overnight or 2-day) is available at checkout for an additional cost, and we will also prioritize processing for faster delivery. If you need international shipping, please contact us first to confirm availability and rates.
How long will it take for my engraved item to arrive?
Engraved urns and cremation necklaces require an additional 1-3 business days for personalization before shipping. If you need faster delivery, please contact us—we’ll do our best to expedite processing and accommodate your timeline. Expedited shipping options are also available at checkout to ensure your memorial arrives as soon as possible.
What do I do if I never received my order?
If your order hasn’t arrived within 10 business days, please contact us so we can track your shipment and resolve any issues. We’ll ensure your memorial reaches you as soon as possible.
What do I do if I received a defective order?
If your order arrives damaged or defective, contact us right away. We take pride in our high-quality craftsmanship and will work quickly to replace or repair your item at no additional cost.
Can I return my urn or cremation necklace? What is your return policy?
Oaktree offers a 100-day return and exchange policy for non-engraved items. Due to personalization, engraved urns are final sale and cannot be returned. For full details on how to start a return or exchange, visit our Returns & Exchanges page.
How do I make changes to an urn I’ve already ordered?
If you need to modify an order, contact us as soon as possible. If your urn is already engraved, we may not be able to make changes, but we’ll do our best to accommodate your request before processing.
How are your urns made? Where do the materials come from?
Oaktree’s urns are handcrafted in the USA and Europe using sustainable, locally sourced materials. Our artisans ensure each piece is beautifully designed and built to honor your loved one’s memory with care.
How do I choose the right urn size?
Each product page includes detailed dimensions, weight capacity, and cubic inches to help you select the right urn. As a general guide, 1 cubic inch holds 1 pound of pre-cremation weight. If you need help choosing, feel free to contact us.
Some urns are marked as “sold out.” When will they be available?
Our handmade urns may take a few weeks to restock. If you’re interested in a specific style, contact us for an estimated restock date, and we’ll notify you when it’s available.
Does Oaktree place the ashes into my urn?
Yes, we offer an optional ash transfer service for an additional fee. If you’d like us to handle this process, please contact us when placing your order. You’ll need to mail the ashes to us, and we’ll carefully transfer them into your selected urn.
How do I transfer ashes into my urn?
Cremated remains typically arrive in a sealed plastic bag inside a plastic container. To transfer them, simply place the sealed bag inside your urn. If needed, use a funnel for precise placement. If you have any concerns, our team is happy to assist.
How do I order an engraved urn?
To personalize your urn, select “Yes” under “Would you like your item engraved?” on the product page. If you’d like a custom design beyond standard engraving, contact us and we’ll explore options to create a unique tribute.
Can my urn be shipped directly to a funeral home?
Yes! During checkout, you can enter the funeral home’s address for direct shipping.
Can I customize my urn beyond engraving?
Yes! In addition to engraving, we offer custom design services, including unique finishes, symbols, or artwork. If you’d like to personalize your urn beyond standard options, contact us to discuss customization possibilities.
What materials are Oaktree urns made from?
Our urns are crafted from premium materials such as wood, ceramic, marble, metal, and biodegradable materials. We focus on sustainable sourcing and high-quality craftsmanship to create lasting memorials.
Do you offer keepsake urns or mini urns?
Yes, we offer keepsake urns and mini urns, which are smaller versions designed for sharing ashes among family members or keeping a small portion as a personal tribute.
Can I pre-order an urn for future use?
Absolutely! Many customers choose to pre-order an urn in advance. This ensures availability and allows for customization without time constraints. Contact us to arrange a pre-order.
Do you offer pet urns?
Yes, we provide a range of pet memorial urns designed to honor beloved pets. These are available in different materials and sizes to suit dogs, cats, and other pets.
How do I clean and maintain my urn?
Urns require gentle care to maintain their beauty. Use a soft cloth and mild cleaner for metal or ceramic urns. Avoid direct sunlight and moisture to preserve wood urns. Contact us for specific care instructions based on your urn’s material.
Can I travel with an urn? Are they TSA-approved?
Most Oaktree urns are TSA-compliant, making them safe for air travel. Choose a non-metal urn to ensure easy screening. We recommend carrying the urn in your carry-on bag and bringing the cremation certificate from the funeral home.
How do I track my order?
Once your order ships, we’ll send you a tracking number via email. You can use this to monitor the shipment status. If you don’t receive tracking details, contact us for assistance.
How do I contact Oaktree if my question isn’t answered here?
We’re happy to assist! Visit our Contact Us page to reach us via email, chat, or phone. Our compassionate team is ready to help.