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Beyond Ashes: Incorporating Hair and Other Mementos into Memorial Jewelry

Written by: Oaktree Memorials

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Together, we can honor their legacy and find comfort in the tangible connection that memorial jewelry for ashes can provide.

In the aftermath of losing a loved one, the grieving process can be overwhelming, filled with a myriad of emotions and the desire to find ways to honor their memory. While traditional cremation urns and memorials hold a sacred place, a growing trend in the world of memorial keepsakes has emerged - the incorporation of personal mementos into beautiful, wearable pieces of jewelry.


At Oaktree Memorials, we understand the profound significance of these cherished items and the comfort they can provide during the grieving journey. Our collection of cremation jewelry offers a unique and deeply personal way to carry a piece of your loved one with you, allowing you to feel their presence and find solace in the tangible connection.

The Significance of Mementos

Mementos, whether a lock of hair, a fragment of clothing, or a treasured object, hold immense emotional value for those left behind. These small, yet profoundly meaningful items serve as a physical link to the person we've lost, a tangible reminder of their essence and the memories we shared. By incorporating these mementos into memorial jewelry, we create a wearable keepsake that can provide a sense of comfort, connection, and healing.

The Healing Power of Tangible Remembrance

Grief is a complex and deeply personal experience, and the ways in which we choose to honor our loved ones can have a significant impact on the healing process. Wearing a piece of jewelry that contains a memento can be a powerful way to feel the presence of the deceased, to carry them with us throughout our daily lives, and to find solace in the physical connection.


Many individuals have reported a sense of comfort and peace in being able to touch and hold a piece of their loved one, whether it's a lock of hair or a fragment of clothing. This tactile experience can be especially meaningful for those who are struggling with the finality of death and the absence of their loved one's physical presence.

Customizing Your Memorial Jewelry

At Oaktree Memorials, we understand that each person's grieving journey is unique, and we strive to offer a wide range of options to help you create a truly personalized memorial piece. Our skilled artisans work closely with you to incorporate your cherished mementos into a variety of jewelry designs, from delicate pendants to elegant bracelets.

Incorporating Ashes

One of the most common and meaningful ways to incorporate a memento into memorial jewelry is by including a small amount of the deceased's cremated remains, or ashes. This allows you to carry a piece of your loved one with you at all times, serving as a tangible reminder of their enduring presence in your life.


Our team of experts will guide you through the process of safely and respectfully including ashes into your chosen jewelry design. We understand the sensitivity of this process and will ensure that your memento is handled with the utmost care and reverence.

Preserving Hair and Other Mementos

In addition to ashes, our memorial jewelry can also incorporate other personal mementos, such as a lock of hair, a fragment of clothing, or a cherished object. These items hold deep significance and can be beautifully preserved within the jewelry, creating a unique and deeply personal keepsake.


Our skilled craftsmen use specialized techniques to carefully encapsulate these mementos, ensuring that they are protected and preserved for years to come. Whether you choose a delicate pendant or a sturdy bracelet, your memento will be seamlessly integrated into the design, creating a harmonious and meaningful piece of jewelry.

Honoring Your Loved One's Legacy

Wearing a piece of memorial jewelry that contains a cherished memento is not just a way to carry a physical reminder of your loved one; it's also a powerful way to honor their legacy and keep their memory alive. By incorporating these personal items into your daily life, you can find comfort in the tangible connection and draw strength from the enduring bond you shared.

Finding Comfort in Shared Experiences

One of the unique aspects of memorial jewelry is its ability to foster a sense of community and shared experience among those who have lost a loved one. When you wear a piece of jewelry that contains a memento, you may find that others who have experienced a similar loss are drawn to it, creating an opportunity for connection, empathy, and the sharing of stories.


This shared experience can be a powerful source of comfort and support, reminding you that you are not alone in your grief and that others understand the profound significance of the items you carry. By wearing your memorial jewelry, you may find that you are able to forge new connections and find solace in the knowledge that your loved one's memory lives on through the experiences you share with others.

Preserving Cherished Memories

Ultimately, the decision to incorporate mementos into memorial jewelry is a deeply personal one, driven by the desire to honor your loved one's memory and find comfort in the tangible connection. At Oaktree Memorials, we are committed to helping you create a piece of jewelry that truly reflects the essence of your loved one and the memories you hold dear.


Whether you choose to include ashes, a lock of hair, or another cherished memento, our team of skilled artisans will work closely with you to ensure that your keepsake is crafted with the utmost care and attention to detail. By preserving these mementos within a beautiful and meaningful piece of jewelry, you can carry a piece of your loved one with you always, finding solace in the physical reminder of their enduring presence in your life.


As you navigate the complex and emotional journey of grief, know that you are not alone. The team at Oaktree Memorials is here to support you, to listen to your stories, and to help you create a lasting tribute to the person you hold dear. Together, we can honor their legacy and find comfort in the tangible connection that memorial jewelry can provide.

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FAQs

What are the shipping options for my memorial?

Oaktree offers free nationwide shipping on all urns and cremation jewelry items, with delivery typically taking 2-5 business days, including processing time. Need it sooner? Expedited shipping (overnight or 2-day) is available at checkout for an additional cost, and we will also prioritize processing for faster delivery. If you need international shipping, please contact us first to confirm availability and rates.

How long will it take for my engraved item to arrive?

Engraved urns and cremation necklaces require an additional 1-3 business days for personalization before shipping. If you need faster delivery, please contact us—we’ll do our best to expedite processing and accommodate your timeline. Expedited shipping options are also available at checkout to ensure your memorial arrives as soon as possible.

What do I do if I never received my order?

If your order hasn’t arrived within 10 business days, please contact us so we can track your shipment and resolve any issues. We’ll ensure your memorial reaches you as soon as possible.

What do I do if I received a defective order?

If your order arrives damaged or defective, contact us right away. We take pride in our high-quality craftsmanship and will work quickly to replace or repair your item at no additional cost.

Can I return my urn or cremation necklace? What is your return policy?

Oaktree offers a 100-day return and exchange policy for non-engraved items. Due to personalization, engraved urns are final sale and cannot be returned. For full details on how to start a return or exchange, visit our Returns & Exchanges page.

How do I make changes to an urn I’ve already ordered?

If you need to modify an order, contact us as soon as possible. If your urn is already engraved, we may not be able to make changes, but we’ll do our best to accommodate your request before processing.

How are your urns made? Where do the materials come from?

Oaktree’s urns are handcrafted in the USA and Europe using sustainable, locally sourced materials. Our artisans ensure each piece is beautifully designed and built to honor your loved one’s memory with care.

How do I choose the right urn size?

Each product page includes detailed dimensions, weight capacity, and cubic inches to help you select the right urn. As a general guide, 1 cubic inch holds 1 pound of pre-cremation weight. If you need help choosing, feel free to contact us.

Some urns are marked as “sold out.” When will they be available?

Our handmade urns may take a few weeks to restock. If you’re interested in a specific style, contact us for an estimated restock date, and we’ll notify you when it’s available.

Does Oaktree place the ashes into my urn?

Yes, we offer an optional ash transfer service for an additional fee. If you’d like us to handle this process, please contact us when placing your order. You’ll need to mail the ashes to us, and we’ll carefully transfer them into your selected urn.

How do I transfer ashes into my urn?

Cremated remains typically arrive in a sealed plastic bag inside a plastic container. To transfer them, simply place the sealed bag inside your urn. If needed, use a funnel for precise placement. If you have any concerns, our team is happy to assist.

How do I order an engraved urn?

To personalize your urn, select “Yes” under “Would you like your item engraved?” on the product page. If you’d like a custom design beyond standard engraving, contact us and we’ll explore options to create a unique tribute.

Can my urn be shipped directly to a funeral home?

Yes! During checkout, you can enter the funeral home’s address for direct shipping.

Can I customize my urn beyond engraving?

Yes! In addition to engraving, we offer custom design services, including unique finishes, symbols, or artwork. If you’d like to personalize your urn beyond standard options, contact us to discuss customization possibilities.

What materials are Oaktree urns made from?

Our urns are crafted from premium materials such as wood, ceramic, marble, metal, and biodegradable materials. We focus on sustainable sourcing and high-quality craftsmanship to create lasting memorials.

Do you offer keepsake urns or mini urns?

Yes, we offer keepsake urns and mini urns, which are smaller versions designed for sharing ashes among family members or keeping a small portion as a personal tribute.

Can I pre-order an urn for future use?

Absolutely! Many customers choose to pre-order an urn in advance. This ensures availability and allows for customization without time constraints. Contact us to arrange a pre-order.

Do you offer pet urns?

Yes, we provide a range of pet memorial urns designed to honor beloved pets. These are available in different materials and sizes to suit dogs, cats, and other pets.

How do I clean and maintain my urn?

Urns require gentle care to maintain their beauty. Use a soft cloth and mild cleaner for metal or ceramic urns. Avoid direct sunlight and moisture to preserve wood urns. Contact us for specific care instructions based on your urn’s material.

Can I travel with an urn? Are they TSA-approved?

Most Oaktree urns are TSA-compliant, making them safe for air travel. Choose a non-metal urn to ensure easy screening. We recommend carrying the urn in your carry-on bag and bringing the cremation certificate from the funeral home.

How do I track my order?

Once your order ships, we’ll send you a tracking number via email. You can use this to monitor the shipment status. If you don’t receive tracking details, contact us for assistance.

How do I contact Oaktree if my question isn’t answered here?

We’re happy to assist! Visit our Contact Us page to reach us via email, chat, or phone. Our compassionate team is ready to help.